Perhaps the idea of Romancing Singapore isn't such a bad one. Of course, the month-long event to promote the idea of romance may seem a joke, considering that the ability to love is certainly innate. But the riverside romantic dinners, the ocean rendezous and the passionate latin dances held, much to the delight of the ladies, will most probably be non-existant without this occasion.
Indeed, Singaporean men lack the initiative and the creativity to plan such beautiful moments. Birthday gifts take form of uninnovative perfumes or chocolates, and marriage proposals simply occur amidst the common roses and soft background music. A dense young man may make an endearing acquaintance, the way he blushes utterly appealing. Yet it is those who master the art of subtle teasing, insults and compliments who make life an unique experience each day. Rhett Butler, in the book Gone With the Wind, captured the hearts of numerous young ladies as he teased Scarlett O' Hara with his incessant insults and compliments, while at the same time enticing her with the offer of new experiences and exotic gifts. It will be unreasonable to demand that of a man in reality, but any little effort he puts in to light up her life or to make her feel a tad special goes a long way in winning her heart.
Perhaps it is time for the men to master the culture of Venus. Learn from Romancing Singapore, break through the conservative barriers. Love is certainly innate, but it takes effort from both parties to devote themselves entirely to each other. Make your love unique, make it a different experience and let it show. You'll be surprised how long-lasting the relationship will be.